The women then started talking about self-love, with Jada revealing her grandmother taught her about pleasuring herself before her first time.
"My grandmother taught me about self-pleasuring because she wanted me to know that that pleasure was from me", Pinkett Smith said. And she taught me at nine!'
As someone who understood how Bourdain and Spade felt when they took their own lives, Jada said she feels grateful for pulling through.
"We, as women, have been trained that women aren't supposed to enjoy sex, sex is not for women, sex is for men, pleasure is for men", Jada said before explaining that once in the past, after an experiment with abstaining from men, she went through an addiction to sex toys. "She didn't want me to fall into the hands of a man, and if he gave me pleasure, to think that that was him. You're having five orgasms a day.'" Jada also explained that she thinks sex is important if you're in a committed and loving relationship, like the one she's had with Will for 20 years. "You know, when you can talk to your mother who's been through a whole lot in regards to sex".
She advised followers to take care of their mind and spirit in the same way they care for their bodies.
During the chat, Willow revealed that her introduction to sex was accidentally seeing her parents doing the deed! "I just didn't have that".
Another wrote: "Yeah.... Jada...you are telling to much sis....some shit needs to stay in that vault in your head...foreva!" I knew the sooner I let him go, the faster he was going to come back'.
Willow says that when it comes to her and Telana's friendship, the two are completely open about sex with one another. This revelation (understandably) left Willow and her best friend visibly shook. "That feeling of, you're my one, and my only, there's no one else, for me, that would not work", Willow responded. "It was like when I walk into you meditating".
Jada asked what her daughter's feelings were about that incident and Willow said she had simply "overstepped a boundary".